Day 8 – A great school to try! Plus a few notes on lift.do

I have a Groupon from TWO YEARS ago for this school: Adventure Out. I have had a “follow up on this” (through FollowUpThen.com – my ABSOLUTELY favorite email/task system) for, yeah, two years.

I purchased two Groupons for their “Survival School” – which I thought would be a blast. H and I are discovering that we have a really bad habit of purchasing stuff that looks interesting – then putting it in a drawer until the coupon expires. Argh.

Anyway – so since you’re supposed to at least get the “value you paid” for the Groupon (which for me was $100), instead of 2-for-1, I just contacted the school to see whether I could get 1-for-1 😉

It’s in Marin – very close by. They also have Rock Climbing, Surfing, etc.

I believe that this could be a great, GREAT place to get some potential TAR skills.

I think that I mentioned I went yesterday and signed up at The Cave for the 20 Crossfit Conditioning sessions. I also downloaded some podcasts on Parkour, plus I have been listening more to the Bulletproof Executive Podcasts. The most recent Podcast that I listened to was with Dr. Doug McGuff, M.D. – and it was IMMENSELY INTERESTING – HERE is the link.

I actually listened to the Bulletproof Podcasts all night – it was sort of a mistake, but so it goes – I fell asleep to them playing on my Apple TV on the stereo in the bedroom, and woke up the next morning – yaaaawn! stretchhhh! – to them still playing. I had to laugh – maybe all that stuff is now subliminally knocking around in my brain. (If so, as David Asprey, the moderator, hawks his “Bulletproof Coffee” every single podcast, I’ll have to monitor my Amex charges in the dead of night. LOL. Actually, I DO make his “bulletproof” recipe now for coffee – though I use Weaver’s – and add his Brain Octane MCT Oil and 1 Tbs butter, now with a couple egg yolks – and it does act like a meal and does start my day off quite well, but I digress. Oh wait, I’ll digress some more – Weaver’s is MY HOMETOWN BREW and got voted WORLD’S BEST COFFEE recently, how proud am I – check out the articles about it HERE.)

Anyway – before the iPod died in the middle of the podcast, Dr. McGuff was talking about long distance Ironman/marathon/ultra athletes, and basically how doing this really messes up your body. Not only the way that we “know” it does (hip flexor issues, pounding on the pavement for hours, shoulder strains), but by telling your body that fast twitch muscle fibers really aren’t that important. That they’re just “dead weight” on your body. However, these muscle fibers are the ones that really help with insulin resistance, etc.

I personally know that I have about zero fast twitch fibers. I was thinking about this the other day, after signing up for the Crossfit stuff. It’s something that I want to rectify, as – when I have worked out – I’ve really been doing mainly “endurance-esque” (slow!) workouts for years. I’m also (as Dr. McGuff put it) one who “punches the ticket” with respect to working out – his comment was that it is like going to church or recycling – there isn’t a lot backing up that these 3 things do all that much, but they make you a “better person” so most of us mindlessly do them. Funny.

That is also why I wound up joining the “Parkour offering” Crossfit gym – ok, that and the Groupon (laugh) – because I KNOW that I need to “get this back” – I have zero and I mean ZERO “bounce” or “jump” or “sprint” in my body, and it’s time to recover that.

Now, time to call a law client, then off to the farmer’s market for my veggie box.

Happy New Year, all! May this coming year be FULL of grass-fed butter and organically-produced-ethically-raised honey! 🙂

POSTSCRIPT: Listening to more podcasts – found and downloaded a few more that look interesting. I remember when I was REALLY into podcasts, now probably over three years ago (at least). Dang, I think we’re talking like 5 years ago . . . (thinks . . . ) yup, I think it was more like 2007 or so. I think that I fell out of doing it when I stopped commuting on the ferry, etc. – podcasts are so great for filling in that “in-between” time – and commuting was a big big part of that.

So, I walked again today – this time to the library to return the book for Book Club tonight – still tracking what I eat, etc. on the Jillian Michaels website. I’m glad that I’m doing this blog, and I’m toying with the idea of signing up for lift.do – it’s a website dedicated to “engraining good habits” and I liked what the founder had to say about it on one of the podcasts I listened to on my walk. HERE is a list of “popular habits” on Lift.Do – Similar to Stikk.com (without the $ risk) or MyFitnessPal.com, basically looks like you sign into a group, and report in how you’re doing. The cool thing is that they have a TON of groups already, and you wouldn’t really “know” folks in the group . . . you can sign up for something as mundane as Flossing every day (one of the top 5 groups!) or even “Work on a Secret Project,” etc. In the podcast (which was on the Bulletproof Executive feed, but I just looked there to link it and I can’t find it) the founder of Lift.Do talks about how, by and large, we only have the “bandwidth” to make a certain number of decisions in a day, and when we get to the end of that number, we’re done. He therefore postulated that things like “Floss” making it way up in the list is because people are trying to get that thing from a “decision” into being a “habit.”

He also talked about there being somewhat of a Maslow’s Hierarchy when it comes to the Groups – people originally join and then get into a group that’s a pressing thing they want in their life right at that moment – something they want to turn from a decision into a habit – like exercising or drinking more water (the top 2 groups). Then as people progress, they join groups to better themselves at work (“set priorities for the day” or “inbox zero”), then better their relationships (“tell my spouse I love them daily”) and ultimately to a more expanded world-view (“3 things I’m grateful for,” “pray,” “stop and enjoy life”).

I am just not sure I want to add one more thing I am “reporting into” – since I’ve committed to this blog in my TAR-365 commitment. Perhaps….Perhaps….Perhaps! 🙂

What’s a Daruma Doll…?

So, today I inked in my biggest Daruma Doll’s eye – and put 365-TAR on the bottom. I’m having trouble importing photos into this blog (probably because my WordPress is outdated), but if you want to see a daruma doll, scroll to the bottom.

It is the tradition in Japan to give a Daruma Doll to someone starting a new venture. As a symbol of an uncompleted goal, only one of the pupils is colored in, and the doll is then placed where it can be seen so it is a continual reminder of that goal.

You often see Daruma Dolls in junk or “antique” shops – with either one, or both, eyes colored in. Now you know why you should NOT purchase them!

When the goal is reached, the second pupil is filled in, and the completed doll becomes a symbol of that achievement.

Another important feature of the Daruma doll is that its low center of gravity causes it to return to an upright position after being tilted. This is symbolic of optimism, persistence, and strong determination.

We were just in Japantown this past weekend – wish I’d thought to get a Daruma for Robb! (I had one, which as I said I’ve just colored in the eye on.)

Ganbatte kudasai! (To our success!)

Days 5-7 of the Adventure…

So!

Monday (Day 5) was really mainly a work day. I had some work that had piled up, and I needed to get that taken care of. One thing that I have trouble juggling is putting out the “attraction energy” to get more work (for money) versus whatever I’m interested in at that moment. This is tough, since I’m not an employee – as an employee, you get to go to work, do your best to do your job with the least amount of effort (hey, you know it’s true), while letting your mind wander around as you get your salary. When you’re an independent contractor, unfortunately, the “mind wandering around to something else” seems to make the pipeline dry up. This is a toughie.

Monday I did some research, though, on various Crossfit gyms. There are 3 in our area. The one that my friend Kat belongs to is the least expensive, and she says it’s the best. There is one closer to me, but it’s very pricey – then another fairly far away (definitely a drive) that’s the most expensive of all. Monday I sent out emails to all those gyms, asking about their pricing, etc. Both the closest one (TJ’s) and the farthest one (The Cave) answered back.

Then interestingly, on Tuesday – which again, if you’re using the feng shui calendar thing, was a day to “start things” – The Cave had a Groupon for 20 sessions at their “Conditioning” level (which you need before you really start) at less than 1/2 price, plus Groupon was having a Fall “Sale coupon” so the 20 classes wound up being closer to 7/10ths off. (Yeah yeah, I’m bad with math, so sue me – basically “a bit over half”).

I signed up for the Groupon RIGHT before the 1:00 p.m. “best feng shui hour” – because I didn’t think about it – I mean, literally, like 4 minutes before. That hour is represented by “Bleeding” – which in feng shui parlance means “Injuries.” (um, duh…) – however, it was in an altogether great day otherwise, so I will just have to watch myself is what I figure.

Right AFTER that (when the 1:00 p.m. hour started) I got the reminder I had set for myself to put away some $ towards TAR in a symbolic fashion. So I have a little piggy bank that I got from my Bank years ago, and “symbolically” put $100 bill into it – which will be the start of my savings for all things TAR. What the heck, again, right? I mean – who knows whether the whole feng shui thing “works” but the wealthiest Chinese swear by it, and if you CAN do it, why not, right?

Today is Day 7 – an Unfavorable/Remove day. I have to get H off to his business trip to Switzerland, and plan to go to the Team In Training workout down on the Marina. I pulled a groin muscle while in Kentucky, but it seems to be healed. Yesterday I did a 3.5/3.0 slope 30 minute walk on the treadmill (still trying to keep it slow as I really don’t want to be dealing with a chronic muscle issue), then did 1,000 yards in the pool, followed by 10 minute tread with hands up in the deep water. My plan is to keep adding 250 yards each time I hit the pool, until I’m up more in the 3 mile range or so. I’ve found that swimming at 3:00 p.m. is a great time – no one is really there, you certainly don’t have to circle swim. I wound up splitting my lane for about 1/2 the time but it’s also nice to be out in the sun. I love my pool – it’s salt-water not chlorine, and also outside. Unfortunately as it’s at the JCC, it’ll be closed as Rosh Ha’Shanah starts tonight. (L’Shana Tovah, Robb!)

A little more about me. When I was a kid, I did everything I could – including trying to wheedle my doctor-father into writing me “medical notes”- to get out of gym class. I’m not quite sure why. It’s interesting, as once I got to college, I wound up being drafted out of my first fencing class onto the varsity team (we went to the NCAAs) – and also was on the varsity/travel/competition teams in Shotokan karate and fencing in my Junior Year Abroad. After moving to Washington, D.C., I got my Masters, but definitely fell off the wagon when it comes to working out. (I did continue with Shotokan karate, however, while in school there.)

In D.C., I went to school at night and worked at a publishing house during the day – there, I met my friend Leslie. On New Year’s Eve between 1987 and 1988, The Washington Post published a calendar that went from January 1st through Thanksgiving. It was put out by Remar Sutton, who had just published his book, Body Worry. The idea was that if you followed the plan, by Thanksgiving, you could do an sprint-distance triathlon in the Bahamas. Remar even stated that he would have a dinner for anyone who came.

This plan started basically with “walk 10 minutes, find a pool, and dust off your bike or find someone who will loan you one.” The Bahamas Conchman Triathlon is dead flat – so it’s not like you needed any special equipment. As you can imagine, 1,000s of people wrote to him. This was back in 1987-88 – I was on the Internet because I’d discovered it during my Masters, but basically no one else was, so it involved writing an actual, physical “letter of commitment” to Remar.

He was pretty much shocked at how many letters he got. (“Oops, did I promise all these folks dinner…?”) We started a band of folks who wound up getting together – the “Conch-Outs.” For example, we volunteered at the Baltimore Triathlon together, etc. – and ultimately a few 100 of us actually made it to The Bahamas. I’m still friends (via Facebook) with one guy and his wife whom I met there, and with Leslie too.

HERE are some photos from back then – yes, that’s me in the mullet!

There, I met a gal who was part of the Hash House Harriers – which I wound up joining, then travelling the world with. That was a crazy time! I also did the Chicago Sun-Times Triathlon with her.

Then I moved back to California, started going to law school, and working out once again fell by the wayside. I got super fit for my wedding – because I wanted to fit into my mom’s wedding dress! – but that was years ago. I did the Ironman (as you can see from previous posts here), and all that jazz, I was in the Marines, etc. – but I’ve never really been “strong,” I more have the “slow and steady” endurance thang going for me.

And – hence – Crossfit. So HERE is the link to the Crossfit “box” (gym) that I got the Groupon for. One thing I like about it is that they also do Gymnastics and Parkour.

What’s Parkour? Here you go (click HERE)

Parkour was featured in the James Bond Casino Royale movie (click HERE).

I’m not saying that a 50+ year old broad can do this stuff, but what the heck? Perhaps! How cool would that be??

Now, mind you, when I was in grammar and middle school, we were “Made” to do gymnastics, and I literally could not do it. I’m not sure why. I know I was scared (I was one scared little kid), and perhaps so tall that I just didn’t “get” my body. But I LOVE the idea of this, and I wonder if I were able to do ONE Parkour move, whether it could look cool for our TAR “Introduction to Us” video.

Hope springs eternal, ya’ll!

OK that’s enough for now – got some law stuff to do, get H ready for Switzerland, then will go to the city for the LLS/TNT run this evening.

Feeling Down? Overwhelmed? Stressed? Biohack yourself!

Question: What’s on the floor next to your bed?

Mine has quite the precarious pile of books that I’m in the middle of reading. And perched on the very top is my Kindle reader!

My Kindle reader (which happens to be an Android tablet) is stocked full of my “brain candy” of choice: Da-Vinci-Code-esque thrillers, murder mysteries, whodunnits.

If you aren’t averse to reading from a reader, I’d like to recommend BookBub.com to you. On this website, you can choose the Category of books you’d like delivered daily; BookBub finds books that are offered at less than $2.00 that day and deposits a list in your email inbox. I only download the interesting Free books – it’s brain candy, after all!  In case you weren’t aware, you can download a free Kindle reader app for any computer/cell phone device from Amazon.com. Then you’ll have books on hand if you’re stuck in a waiting room, airport, or even when none of the “real” books on the floor next to your bed look enticing!

Many people wonder why authors/publishers offer their books for free download. The short version is that Amazon offers them a deal for agreeing to give it the exclusive online distribution rights for a number of months. If you give Amazon the exclusive, it will give you a percentage of the income from the Category/Subcategory you’ve slotted your book into during those months. Your percentage of the monthly “take” depends upon how high your book ranks that month on Amazon in your Category/Subcategory. So if you can push it high-high-higher through giving it away for free, you get more of the take. If you get 5-star reviews, you get even more. That’s why authors will often offer their book for free if you “promise” to give them a review. Interesting, huh?

So what are some of the “real” books (that I actually paid for!) piled up under my Kindle reader, next to my bed?

Currently, most of them have to do, to a greater or lesser extent, with bettering your Self by making small but hugely impactful changes in your life, newly coined as “biohacking.”

What’s it mean to “biohack”? HERE is a fantastic TED talk about it; HERE is a “Biohacking 101” Podcast from a guy I listen to on this stuff. But in general, you “biohack” by changing what you eat, do, and think, to affect how your DNA expresses itself.

Example? There are little ends to the “shoelaces” of our DNA called “telomeres.” (Know what the plastic-end-thingie for a shoelace is called? An aiglet. How do I know that? Because I just looked it up. Dictionary.com – so love it!)

Telomeres are also known as “repetitive nucleotide sequences located at the termini of linear chromosomes of most eukaryotic organisms” – if you’re Wikipedia.

Chromosome-shoelace-end-thingies. What about’em?

Got short aiglets? Aging, cancer. How can you affect the length of the aiglets? Do nothing, eat crap, stress out – shorten’em. Do certain exercises, eat certain things, meditate – lengthen’em! “Biohack” your DNA – make a better you – by the way you move, eat, or act.

As I indicated above, there are a myriad of podcasts on this subject, which I listen to when doing mindless things like washing dishes or driving. Try BulletproofExecutive.com for an example – the guy is a little extreme, and his listeners are obviously not 50+ year old wives who would rather just hang out like Yours Truly, but you’ll get the idea . . . and it will give you a lot to chew on when you’re stuck in traffic, instead of listening to the traffic report every eight minutes on KCBS.

So back to the books next to my bed. They include oldies but goodies like The YOU Books by Dr. Oz (YOU On A Diet, YOU The Owner’s Manual) as well as Younger Next Year which is by a doctor and a patient – fun and fabulous! You can get the unabridged version of Younger Next Year For Women on CD from the San Rafael library and download it to your iPod/MP3 player for free, too, if you like. I also have the new Thinner Next Year – by the same guys – on my Kindle and yes, this one, I paid for. More on Kindle books in a second.

Also stacked in there with the “oldie but goodies” newer ones like the weighty tomes of The 4-Hour Body and The 4-Hour Chef by Tim Ferriss and the hugely entertaining and informative books by T.C. Hale (Kick Your Fat in the Nuts and Kick Menstrual Cramps in the Nuts).

As I’m super interested in nutrition and how it affects us (especially as I managed to put on a lot of weight over the past couple years), my bedside books used to include Kim Snyder’s The Beauty Detox Solution … that one has now moved to the kitchen. I’ve begun implementing some of her suggestions (particularly food ordering), and have lost 15 pounds in the past couple months.

Where do I get these books? If you don’t know about half.com, you might want to check it out. I always go there first when I’m on the hunt for a book, CD, or DVD that I want to keep, and do things like highlight and take notes in (yes, I’m one of those readers). Libraries, bookstores, and regular folk sell on half.com at a fraction of the cost. Plus, I feel a lot less guilty getting bored and giving a partially-read book to Hospice By The Bay as a charitable donation (you know about that, right?) if I’ve spent $2.00 on it than if I’ve spent $22.00 on it. Then again, sometimes I have to explain to the nice Hospice volunteer Why a great majority of my donations come sheathed in plastic with Dewey Decimal numbers on them . . . castoffs via half.com from a state library far, far away. . . but I digress (gee, how unusual).

In the countdown to Thanksgiving, and in the spirit of my book pile, perhaps it’s time for you to put a “line in the sand” and start a new eating, moving, or thinking tradition. Let me leave you with a few suggestions:

Eating: For two years now, we have had a fully gluten-free Thanksgiving meal, because I didn’t like what I was reading about gluten, but mainly because I found an entire set of very yummy recipes on HippKitchen.com. I’ve linked them HERE. The stuffing is particularly fabulous. Another suggestion if you’re so inclined is to really record what you eat – a great website is MyFitnessPal.com (they also have free apps). On MyFitnessPal, you can “friend” folks who are also using the app, and it will let you know how they are doing (and it will let them know how you are doing – e.g., if you haven’t logged in in a while, it will notify them that perhaps they should contact you to remind you).

If you’ve watched The Biggest Loser or read any of Jillian Michaels’ books (they’re all there, in my pile!), you know that keeping yourself accountable and on track regarding what’s going into your mouth is immensely important. I personally use the BodyBugg and subscribe to Jillian Michaels’ website for personal accountability. But if if you want to lose weight and you’re more motivated if others are involved, try DietBet.com. This is a 4-week social dieting game. Check it out.

Moving: There are a ton of goal-setting sites and apps out there now. Stickk.com is one of the best. It really works if you set a goal that includes in-between goals, like “make lunch and bring it to work every day” between now and your “lose 15 pounds” date goal. How does Stickk.com work? You set a goal, tell a support group, enlist a “referee” to judge your success, and set stakes. The stakes are usually monetary – lay $50 on the line and keep it if you make it. But if you fail, the funds automatically go where you say they should go – to a friend, a charity, or (best!) an “anti-charity” (e.g., a charity whose mission you do not support). You can use it for any goal. Also, care of the Bulletproof Executive Podcast, I just disocvered lift.do – which I plan to investigate.

Thinking: One of the simplest freemium apps out there is the Insight Timer. (“Freemium” means that you can get a robust app for free or you can pay a bit and get some premium features if you want them). This app helps you focus on just being still and meditating/taking a break from stress. You set the time, then close your eyes. You don’t have to watch the clock – Insight Timer rings a meditation bell when your time’s up. An added plus is you can see everyone worldwide who is using the app when you are – this is particularly heartening if you’re using it during a 3 a.m. sleepless episode (“I’m not alone!”). There are a few “guided” meditation sessions you can even listen to. The Insight Timer app is a great way to take a quick break, whether you’re at your desk or on public transportation (not in the car, please!)

Here’s to a great Fall to all of you – I’d love to hear what books are next to your bed!

Biohacking Post from DreamChoosers.com

It feels a little schizophrenic to have two blogs going at once, and I’m not really certain that the post I just did on DreamChoosers.com (which is normally about passive income) really belongs there. So, I figure, I will also link it HERE, to cover all the bases 😉

Days 3 & 4 from R

R. So cryptic. It’s Roberta, but Robbi to Sandy and Rob to most of my friends. I’m 59, currently weigh the most I have ever, but went through a radical change ten years ago that caused me drop 60 lbs and I think I can do it again. Need to. I’m working on a couple of film projects that are going to require some public events that I am simply not prepared for at the moment.So between yesterday and today I worked in the “brawn” area: I’m just a mile from the beach so have re-instigated my walks, either on the surfline if the tide is out, or up on the boardwalk if it’s high tide. Yesterday and today were both board walk days. An hour each late in the day to avoid the sun. That’s about three miles each at my usual speed. I can do better on a treadmill, but I don’t work up the sweat like I do down at the beach. It’s so deceptive. There’s a breeze, but the humidity is killer. My life skills and experiences have included canoeing, camping (I can rough it in the woods), sleeping under blazing security lights in an urban environment, riding a bicycle, a little bit of cooking (I do a mean white pad thai), and have a little German and high school French occasionally floats back to me, and I can drive a stick shift. I want to try my hand at one of those airplane simulators! Sandy’s already done it!

THE VIDEO: I just thought of how to begin it…

Star Wars ScrollSince we met at Lucasfilm, I think that we start it like the “scrolling roll-up crawl” at the beginning of Star Wars. I’m sure Prashant can figure it out, but just in case, here is an Adobe Premiere Pro tutorial on doing it!

It would go something like this:

(John Williams Score crashes in)

A long time ago, in a galaxy far, far away…
our heroines met in the Lucasfilm internship program…
This is Rob typing, because Sandy is an intellectual property lawyer
and as soon as she sees that I’m doing this, she….

(sound of a “needle scratching off a record” – like this – Screen goes black)

Me saying: “Robbie! What do you think you’re doing?”

Rob: “Oh come on. It’s all about the visuals…I’m just having a little fun…”

Me: “SIGH…”

Next starts my background/photos (with overdub by me), then R’s background/photos (with overdub by R), then…

When it comes to our background “together,” again, the screen goes black, Williams score fades back in (at about 3:45 mins, per the John Williams score linked above, where he is conducting), “scroll” starts with wording about us meeting at Lucasfilm, and you hear me in the background shouting “R! HEY! STOP THAT!” and the “needle scratching off a record sound” again…

HERE is an example of what the scroll “looks like” – Since we only get 3 minutes I think we cut out ANYTHING but the front crawl part (though we could potentially start where it says STAR WARS, call it CYBER FRIENDS or something in that script.)

OK I’m really laughing at this idea. Hope R likes it. This is only Day 4. All I have read says that the application and the video are the most important – we’re going to have to have some video of “us” in it – but I think this will really really make the judges laugh.

Well, I’ll be darned…Feng Shui is on our side (by “accident”…?)

So.

I have this super duper detailed feng shui calendar (goes down to the hour of when to do or “not to do” things). This is what the whole RocketSpeedMarketing.com thing was about – I was doing the SendOutCards side, the feng shui master was doing the feng shui side. It just didn’t work out for whatever reason – but if you’re curious you can go there to see what I’m talking about.

ANYWAY – so I was “compelled” to text R on Thursday August 29, 2013 at 12:23 p.m. about this whole “365 Days to Amazing Race” idea.

I was just getting my office back organized today for the first time in months (H got my new notebook tied into my sound system, screen, etc. – THANK YOU…) – and I found the feng shui calendar. I haven’t used it in forever – bad me, it was expensive enough – so I opened up that time and date with a little trepidation.

GET THIS….

August 29th is the ONLY “green” day since August 21st through tomorrow, September 2nd (that’s another green day). “Green” days are the “best days” to do things. Moreover (could I make this up?) – the time of 11 a.m. to 12:59 p.m. is one of the 3 best “hours” of that day.

August 29th was an Excellent/Risk day – heck, so “Excellent” to start a “Risky” Adventure?

Yeah baby…

The Positive Influences are Virtue, Growth, and Advantage.

I can see those playing out on TAR, can’t you?

Potential Negative Influences include Potential Disaster, Petty Arguments, Guilty As Charged, Wilderness, Upheaval, and On Guard.

Pfffffft. Amazing Race, much?

The HOUR I texted is the time for – get this – Good Question and Wealth Accumulation. “Good Question” means that it’s the right time to pose a question to someone else when it will be received well. Here is the actual definition:

“Good Question: The key to unlock the door to your success is to ask the right question. This hour is unsuitable for nothing. It is suitable for working with your coach or mentor; seeking answers to challenging questions; asking for a raise or a promotion. It is also ideal for making deposits into accounts such as savings or other “accounts” that you would like to accumulate over time (monetarily/skills/etc.). This is also a great time for commencing work that could ease the accumulation of wealth and fortunes, which is tenfold if “Wealth Accumulation” is also in the hour. Though it’s also a good day to “unlock” wealth, the key is asking for what you want, then taking action in that path.”

Now, granted, R didn’t receive my text (she’s changed carriers), but that actually doesn’t matter, it’s when the action is initiated. And Wealth Accumulation – well – can you say $1 million – ? (Note also the comment about Wealth Accumulation in the Good Question definition – !)

Tomorrow (Monday) is a Favorable/Close day, so if I can get out from Labor Day celebration stuff, it means it’s a good day to “Close open things” and such. Gotta get some law work off my desk, pay bills, etc.

And then Tuesday the 3rd is a Favorable/Establish day – in other words, the day to start a new habit, etc. The best time for this is actually from 9-10:59 a.m. and from 1-2:59 p.m. I guess I’m calling Crossfit then and making my appointment to do the “On Ramp” Class with them for when H is gone . . .

This is pretty weird. I really felt compelled to send this text. I’m not saying that there’s magic to this – but as most Chinese would not DARE to do something without consulting the feng shui calendar – who am I to argue?

Crazy. Cray-Cray.

Feng Shui Compass

DAY 4 of the Amazing Adventure…

Well, I’m actually up at 5:30 a.m. on a day that we were supposed to sleep in . . . this whole thing is eating my head 😉

The first question I had was – what can you bring with you on The Amazing Race?

The second thing knocking around my head is the 3 minute video.

I actually think that the way the video should go is 1 minute R, 1 minute me, 1 minute “us.” I think the minute that’s for us as singles should be “how we got where we are.” James’ comment about “lawyer, pole dancer, Ironman” sort of got me to this thought.

My story line pretty much goes like this: I was super shy as a kid. My mom will even tell you that I wouldn’t go into the sandbox, without her getting in and showing me it was OK. In college, I really got sick of this person, so I copied a girl that everyone liked – her mannerisms, what she ate, how she laughed, how she talked. (The interesting part about that is that she was super bad in school and a decade later we happened to get together and I told her this and she got teary-eyed, telling me that I was always the “one who did well in school,” etc. and she had either not gotten her degree or barely did – she left UC our junior year – and she couldn’t believe I would “pick her.”) Anyway – as my story is going past, there are photos – they have to be pretty quick, 30-60 photos as there is a minute. Maybe a video clip from ABC-TV when I was on for my book. Maybe a clip of Tim and my vodcast (maybe from the blooper reel?)

Then when it gets to “our” 1 minute, I think that we show what I mentioned before – typing, then the Facebook message comes up – I wonder if R has any photos of the two of us from back then? (I can’t imagine – I don’t. Maybe a photo of the group – ??) I think that the only photo that I have of the 2 of us “doing” something that isn’t posed – which isn’t really “us” per se – is one where you can see R shooting the video for our wedding – it’s either in the film or it’s one of my wedding photos.

Then we do perhaps a Skype clip where we’re talking to the video about why to pick us. But we can maybe “reveal things” that we wouldn’t know, because we don’t know each other “in person” all that well (e.g. me saying “R – I snore. Bad.”)

I can’t think of any couple in all the Amazing Races (though I haven’t seen all of them) that have a “backstory” like this and I think it could be compelling. We have to figure out how to “style” this – because the first page of your video needs to basically say what you are (a la what they would put on the front reel of Amazing Race – “Joe and Moe, brothers,” “Cindy and Sally, FBI Agents.”) I think it has to be something like “20 year cyber-pals.” We’ve stayed friends – via the Internet – longer than many of the contestants have been adults. (Most, likely.)

Back to the first question – this is the website I found:

http://www.aboutjatyler.com/amazing-race-rules.html

People put a LOT of effort into these things – dang! This one doesn’t really say “what you can have in your backpack” (just what you can’t have). OK one more try:

http://boards.independenttraveler.com/showthread.php?4282-Frequently-Asked-Questions-About-Amazing-Race

Nope, not so much….

http://amazingrace.wikia.com/wiki/Rules_and_Penalties – ok this answers one question – if you go somewhere cold, they will provide you with the clothes, etc. you don’t have to pack them. (ONE BIG QUESTION ANSWERED! – That could take a lot of room!)

This one looks promising, but it’s old: http://www.tarflies.com/article.php?_f=detail&id=29 – yup, pretty good. Although we know that you can’t bring PDAs, maps, etc., it looks like basically it’s a 35 lb weight limit, and you want to only bring things you can bring on a plane so that you don’t have to check your bag. So that would leave out some things you might “want” to bring (though I think you can bring a Swiss Army Knife now on a plane…)

Yup, this is the best link by far – as it says, “Keep checking the CBS website vigilantly because after it’s announced, you only have 4 weeks to get the full application in.” As I said though the above is old, but it has a LOT of good information.

This is a good paragraph point (also from the above):

“…Nor can they bring written notes of that sort. (Although according to TAR1’s Brennan, nothing stops you from memorizing that sort of stuff right before you leave, and then writing it all down in a blank notebook as soon as possible after the Race starts.)”

Ah-HA, here is a good one regarding “what you can bring” – again, this is ages old (seems like a LOT of these were written in 2006 – interesting!) – but this has got to be at least “mainly” still right I imagine:

http://forum.realityfanforum.com/index.php?topic=8121.0

I think that one of the things that would be very important would be a GOOD ALARM CLOCK that is VERY VERY LOUD (laugh) – since no one can wake you up if you oversleep. You get 12 hours from when you check in before you have to go again – man, make it on the show, START TESTING ALARMS (laugh)!

This site stresses that overpacking is the BIGGEST issue. One of the (male) racers said he was prepared for anything including a suit and tie in his clothes – I think that as a girl you are luckier as you can pack a “packs down to nothing” black dress and some black dead-flat sandals and you’re good. My supposition would be that the best shoes would be sneaker-type shoes – or one pair like that one pair of Keen’s. Question would be whether they should be more “hiker/sneaker” combo shoes (like I recently purchased) or “all-around” sneaker shoes? Still searching on that one. The site also stresses that the “most important thing” is the right backpack with lots of straps (makes sense) – light, etc. I can see that.

Aha here is another one, though obliquely related to TAR:
http://adopttaiwan.wordpress.com/2011/03/16/packing-in-amazing-race-style/

Here is Phil K’s “12 Travel Tips” that it refers to, from 2006 (what IS it about 2006?):
http://www.nationalgeographic.com/adventure/0511/whats_new/amazing_race.html#travel_tips

I LOVE THIS (from the above article):
“Perhaps the most exceptional thing about The Amazing Race is its inviting worldview. “It seems like all we ever see of the rest of the world is the aftermath of a natural disaster, war, or someone who hates us, burning an American flag,” says the expat New Zealander Keoghan, who resides with his wife and daughter in Santa Monica, California. He adds, “Our President is constantly warning people about all the ‘evildoers’ out there. It’s no wonder some Americans think they’ll be safer staying home.”

TRUE TRUE TRUE. I think that is HUGELY important, and maybe it’s one thing we mention in our video. I think especially now, this would “Play well.” Also they talk again and again and AGAIN about “this is a relationship show” or “the thinking person’s reality show.” That’s gotta be what is stressed – not the $$ or the travel.

This is also a GREAT QUOTE: “…or what the show really delivers is a spot-on satire of the breakneck speed at which Americans travel.” Ha!

In reading that link, GET A LOAD of #7! Holy cats!

#11 is a great idea (regarding panhandling if you lose your money). If you can panhandle from other travelers they are more likely to commiserate. Interestingly, I would think (I mean, think about it) if you are there panhandling with a camera and a sound person at your side, you’re going to be considered differently than a “usual” panhandler 🙂 “The departures terminal is your best bet” – clever. And better than arrivals, because if someone is departing they are “going home” so they are more likely to be more loose with their money than someone who has more money, but “wants it to last” for their holiday in that foreign land.

Okay, well here is a link to the backpacks recently used: http://wiki.answers.com/Q/What_model_arc_teryx_backpacks_are_Katy_and_max_using_on_amazing_race_2013

Now I’m searching on Bing instead of Google, here is another website (this one didn’t show on Google at all but was first on Bing – interesting):

http://www.amazingracefanwiki.com/page/The+%22Real%22+Rules

This one’s a pretty good packing list! (Huffington Post travel writer): http://www.huffingtonpost.com/la-carmina/amazing-race-style_b_2207344.html

Also Huffington Post – packing tricks from the Goth Team: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/la-carmina/watch-5-packing-tips-from_b_1217565.html – wow I don’t remember these 2 but they had ONE backpack between them? Now THAT is a GREAT idea! (How did I miss them? Maybe I have “mental pause”)

World Race Packing List and Video: http://hannataylor.theworldrace.org/?filename=wr-packing-list-video Wow this was just posted a couple days ago. It’s obviously not TAR because they’re bringing electronics, etc., but it has makes and models of things, which I think is muy bueno (especially as this is from 2013!) This is “big pack plus day pack” but it has a lot of electronics. Video at the bottom. Interesting regarding bringing a Bible, I actually like the idea. Good reading there – I once told someone if I was allowed ONE book on a desert island, that’d be it – you could be entertained for years with one. (Meant with no disrespect!)

DAY 2 & DAY 3 on the Amazing Adventure . . .

I’m a day behind on posting, so I will do Days 2 and 3 together.

Yesterday (Day 2) I looked up the Amazing Race Wiki. You can find it here: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Amazing_Race

Here are the teams for this coming season (23): http://www.hollywoodreporter.com/live-feed/amazing-race-season-23-teams-615327

Here is the application: http://www.theamazingracecasting.com/howtoapply

This is going to be the key part: Short Bio of Team (Up to 70 Words), focus on Relationship Positives and Negatives (plus the video). We can get Prashant to make the video look great – but how to work it? Our story: We met when interns at Lucasfilm and hit it off – maybe because we were at least 10 years older than anyone else in the program! 🙂 R went back to be a minister on the East Coast. I was a “big firm” lawyer. I moved on from there to in-house, then having my own law firm, plus 3 books (about being a Bond Girl, and about Passive Income), getting married. R moved from East to West Coast, need to get the rest of the story. We kept in touch via email. This was back in 1993 or 1994 (can’t remember which) so we’ve been friends for HOLY COW that means 20 years but we haven’t really “seen one another” more than a handful of times in person (definitely less than 10 – even when we were at Lucasfilm). I’m pretty sure that’s right. We knew when we met we would “rescue each other out of a Mexican jail” – funny how you know that sometimes when you first meet. R came up and video’d my wedding – I helped fund her first pre-Kickstarter-esque movie.

It’s an odd story, that’s for sure.

That’s enough for Day 2. Day 3 – walked 2 miles, inner thigh still hurts when I try to run. Thought a lot again about Crossfit. Depressed at being in such terrible shape, even though I’ve run a bunch of marathons in the last year. I think I said that in the last post. My shoulder still twinges, and of course, I’m “over 50” (how’d THAT happen?) Talked with Robert about getting another “functional fitness” assessment and he said he’d videotape me (now how depressing will THAT be?!) Need to work on strength.

Here are the “requirements” from the last Amazing Race “intake” in San Francisco:

Click to access amazing_race_affiliate_eligibility_requirements.pdf

Yes I know I should be using snazzy embedded links, but right now just trying to get this all down in one place. This really is more by way of a “running diary” than anything else (and for me and R to keep track that we’re each doing something for the next 365 to try to get ourselves there).

As for the video, here are some great links to consider when the time comes:

The Casting Director on what she’s looking for:

http://www.realitywanted.net/2007/12/05/interview-with-lynne-spillman-casting-director-for-the-amazing-race/

The Amazing Race Casting Video (what makes a great video – and here we go, can’t be longer than 3 minutes. Is that 3 minutes each or together? DANG if together that doesn’t give us a lot of time! Yup – just read it – 3 minutes together. Yikes!):

http://www.theamazingracecasting.com/Video

One thing these stress is don’t say how much you need the money; how much you want to travel; etc. I think that we have it there. I think that, instead, we stress that every show has to have the folks that try really hard but don’t make the cut. Not everyone can be #1, and we’d love to be #11! That might be a really funny way to play it. I think that would get their attention. However, you do have to be competitive and strong-willed, but maybe we can play up the “Old age and treachery will always win out against youth and skill” angle too. Think about this . . . Could be hilarious.

This is the guide for Amazing Race Australia, but has some great tips:

http://au.tv.yahoo.com/the-amazing-race-australia/about-the-show/article/-/10030299/

I actually see us cutting together a video with the 2 of us on either 1/2 of the screen. (Prashant can do this for us). I also see us working (they say they like that), emailing each other, maybe a “shot over the shoulder” where one of us is on the computer and in the bottom corner, the other’s message on Facebook pops up…I think that is really something that would get their attention. That will be different. That can also be one of our “this could be a real problem” things – e.g., what happens when we’re 4 weeks together? We don’t really know whether we’ll drive one another crazy, though we’ve known each other for 20 years! (NOTE: I snore, R!)

Here are a bunch of videos that say that they got callbacks (I understand from my cousin Robin that Chris and James – our cousins – got to the semis apparently – so I need to contact them and see what they sent!):

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R4aJXQ79yxI

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iqNFZwNdjtE

Tips on how to get on Amazing Race (from a couple who didn’t get on, but has a lot of “why we did not get on” to their blog):

http://www.radicalparenting.com/2009/12/21/7-tips-on-how-to-apply-to-the-amazing-race/

Great overall explanation of what’s involved:

http://brucepena.hubpages.com/hub/The-Amazing-Race-So-You-Want-To-Be-A-Contestant

In the above (really very good) the “Skills, Attributes, and Hang-ups” is VERY GOOD. I can drive a standard car (and I could brush up on how to drive a motorcycle – I have a license but it’s about 20 years old!) I’m not strong AT ALL and don’t know about R – my guess is, not so much. I remember some of the skills needed in a couple of the last years and they DEFINITELY required strength. That’s part of doing this 365 day thing – I really want to have somewhere to say “Yes, I am working on that” and then record it. As for languages, I do okay in German, I do okay with French, I have taken Japanese and passed a fluency test in 1993 (!!! Before most of the contestants were born !!!). One thing this says that an all-female team has never one, and one with the contestants over 46 has never won. That’s OK. I’d like to do the best we can but I don’t have the actual thought we’d WIN. I just think it would be a blast to TRY.

Yeah Yeah Yoda, “There is Do or Not Do, There Is No Try.” Shut the F up. LOL!

It also says that you shouldn’t have too many hangups (food related issues behind high on them . . . wonder if being allergic to fish and to peanuts is going to axe us – ??? Hell I’ll eat crickets but don’t wipe me out with a flounder frittata LOL). Also says that you’re likely to do stuff at heights (we know that – R can do it LOL) and also must know how to swim WELL. I got that, not sure about R. I was thinking about that. I wonder if you can bring swim goggles?

This makes me want to get Lasik next year even more . . . .

Need to practice paddling a canoe. We can do that. I remember paddling with H and we went around and around. Yeah, I need to practice that. 🙂 Says you have to practice both together and separately – I guess if we get on, R is going to have to come up here and we are going to have to get some practice in!

I really wonder if they would take us if our “game” is that we have been friends for 20 years but haven’t really seen one another more than a handful of times, in person.

This article was good for comic relief:

http://www.travelfreak.com/2012/09/28/my-experience-auditioning-for-the-amazing-race/

I think that’s enough for today. Well, almost. The closest Crossfit Gym to me is TJ’s down on the Miracle Mile. I don’t feel particularly “ready” to do Crossfit, since before I went to the Vienna Marathon, I did a month (3x/wk) with a Crossfit coach from Tam Crossfit and I SUCKED. I mean suuuu-uuuuucked! It was seriously pathetic. HOWEVER, I do believe this is the best workout to get you strong, and I think strong is what we need.

Here is the website for TJ’s: http://tjsgym.com/sanrafael.html

I think that I have to call them tomorrow, as one of my Day 4 things to do. It’s pricey, and I don’t have that sort of “throw around” cash. I also am already a member at the JCC, and Robert (the functional fitness guy) has said I should work out with him  – and he’s likely right. The interesting thing with Robert is that he said he’d do a video of the workout – which could be SUPER helpful, if I were to do it at home. I have to explore all options – I like the Crossfit idea because my friend Kat does it, and it’s a “group” of people. She’s at Tam CrossFit, because apparently when she joined the Crossfit community, she had dated a guy at TJ’s, plus she liked the (female) owner at Tam Crossfit better. TJ’s is just SO much easier for me to get to – if I am really motivated I can walk or run up and over The Hill to get there. I’d have to drive to Tam Crossfit – or it’s a long run (I did that when I was training with the trainer there).

You can see how expensive it is here – http://tjsgym.com/gettingstarted.html – 4 “private sessions” for nearly $300 – ?? Lord almighty.

Here is another Crossfit in my area (Crossfit Marin/Corte Madera in “The Cave”) – that one is definitely a drive for sure: http://www.crossfitmarin.com/ – they don’t seem to have an email address but here’s their number: (415) 927-1630 (“call to schedule your 5 required sessions” before you start). Aha – found their email. I sent them a plaintive email. We’ll see what they say.

Here is the website for Tam Crossfit (This is where Kat works out): http://www.tamcrossfit.com/crossfit-schedule-pricing/

They have “On Ramp” classes – 3 classes for $75. Ok that is WAY BETTER than the pricing (mentioned above) at TJ’s. (No idea what The Cave costs). They have M/W/F classes at both 9:30 a.m. and at noon (though if I keep going to Yoga at 1:30 that doesn’t work so well on Mondays). It’s $180/month if you get 6 months – so that’s less than Greg’s House of Steel was (I paid $100 less there and I still was paying more than $180/month).

Here’s their Getting Started page: http://www.tamcrossfit.com/get-started-now/

I think that this might be the cheapest Crossfit around . . . Hmmmm. Maybe I need to revise my thoughts on TJ’s v Tam. (TJ’s is closer, but if the “On Ramp” sessions are more than 300% as expensive dot dot dot)

Here’s their video: http://www.tamcrossfit.com/best-of-the-bay/

It looks like there might be an “On Ramp” starting on September 7th. If I could do the 3 classes while H is away, that might not be a bad idea. OK, I guess I will ask Kat.

And that is enough for Day 3!

POSTSCRIPT: I messaged James, and he said that he and Chris did one of the “show up” calls for Amazing Race – they were told to submit a video, but never did. When I said that R and I were thinking of applying, he said “Lol well play up your ironman/ pole dancing/ lawyer and you never know!! I’ll be rooting for you.”

I forgot about the pole dancing….