Manta Ray Ballet: Snorkeling with manta rays in Kona, Hawaii

I’m not going to say much – I’m going to let this video speak for itself. Suffice it to say, though, that this is not a “professional” video – it was taken with a Samsung handheld underwater camera from the surface of the water by lil’ ole me. Thank you… *to Sunlight On Water for leading […]


I’m Thankful For…Things Going Wrong?

Wow, what a great photo, right? It’s one of the bars at The Standard Hotel, New York. H and I had the most amazing evening here. But it almost didn’t happen. We had tickets to do an evening dinner sail around New York – spent a pretty penny for it, too. But we mis-timed getting […]


Setting S.M.A.R.T. Goals

There are endless examples of goal-setting strategies. So many, in fact, that they can confuse and overwhelm people. The easiest way to begin planning your goals is to utilize the S.M.A.R.T.(E.R.) acronym. There are actually a lot of different “meanings” for those letters, but this post will discuss the most-used ones. You might want to […]


“I thought you could take a joke” – passive aggressive behavior

Today in a networking meeting, a fellow member turned to me when something that is considered “taboo” in our networking group was raised (“hustling” someone for business) and “kidded” me about doing it. It surprised and hurt me. Though I am an MLM professional, this networking group, BNI, does not allow you to talk about […]


“It Worked For Me” by Colin Powell

I’m reading a great book by one of my idols, Colin Powell (are you allowed to call a four-star general and former Secretary of State an “idol”?) He talks about “slipping away” from his posh office and bodyguards, and going down to the parking garage when he was Secretary of State. The workers were all mainly […]




Unofficial Ironman Louisville 2010 drink: The Carnage!

Mr. Martini from behindthebarshow.com and I have done a few podcasts on mixology – in fact, here is the link to our Mint Julep episode from the running of the Kentucky Derby (very different than running PAST the Kentucky Derby…believe me.) So, he was the guy I turned to, to help me “perfect” the drink The […]